HEALING THROUGH CONNECTION:
INTEGRATIVE AND EMBODIED THERAPY
Finding new ways of being through personal exploration, trauma processing, and nervous system regulation.
WELCOME
My name is Kimiko. Thank you for visiting my website. The focus of my practice is to support others on their healing journeys through psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and somatics. My work is rooted in embodied safety and lives at the intersection between the mind, the body, and the subconscious. I hold space for the many layers of identity we each carry, such as race, gender, class, sexuality, neurocomplexity, disability, and how these shape our lived experience. Please feel very welcome to reach out if you have any questions about my approach.
Where do you need support?
These are my areas of specialization and ways I can support you in working with them.
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People often seek therapy when anxiety, depression, or anger become unmanageable and eclipse things that once brought joy. My approach begins with acceptance: recognizing that these parts are here, and that efforts to avoid, ignore, or push them down are unsustainable. Acceptance here is not about love and light, but about building a compassionate response to these feelings as they arise, so that they can be understood as patterns of behaviour rather than as your identity. With this approach, we can then gently begin exploring root causes, creating space for healing, and helping you open to new ways of being.
Common issues I work with include: generalized, situational, or anticipatory anxiety, the spectrum of depressive issues (including post-partum), and building a compassionate relationship with anger. I also acknowledge that anxiety, depression, and anger are natural responses to the world we currently live within, and offer tools to work with them in this context.
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Family issues, past and present, are often significant contributors to mental health struggles. My approach is first to locate your experience within the family system and then begin developmental and attachment-based work. Where are the historical wounds? Are you still responding from these places? By finding and healing the wounds, you can start building a stronger foundation and establishing new ways of feeling, responding, and moving forward.
Common family issues I work with include co-dependency, enmeshment, high conflict, living low or no contact with family members, attachment wounding, intergenerational trauma and healing, parenting support, and role-shifting as parents age.
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Grief is one of the most impactful issues on mental health, perhaps less because of grief itself, and more because of all the tactics we use to avoid feeling it. Protective responses often take centre stage–everything from anxiety to substance use to massively over-extending oneself–to distract from the deeper waves of grief. My approach is to gently begin working with these protective parts and then easing into and processing the underlying feelings of grief.
Common issues of grief I work include loss of a person, culture, relationships, community, pets, work, a way of life, finances, and acute, chronic, or anticipatory grief.
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Many people begin therapy when they are ruminating on big questions about identity, purpose, and meaning. These questions can feel overwhelming, especially as they are often co-habitating with depression, anxiety, avoidance, or dissociation. My approach is to meet you where you are at. Often exploring meaning and values can help to clarify a sense of identity and purpose which then can help you find a new path forward. Other times, there may be a historical backlog that is asking to be processed in order to clear up space in your system. Because of this, I am always trauma responsive, and we will work at a pace that feels safe and appropriate.
Common issues I work with: loss of meaning; feeling stuck with no clear sense of ‘what’s next;’ fear of change; longing for a deeper; more fulfilling life; establishing a spiritual practice; and questions of identity (who am I; who am I after a major life change; who am I after trauma?).
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Neurocomplexity in my practice refers to ADHD, autism, and trauma-induced brain changes including PTSD/CPTSD. My approach is trauma responsive, and unique to each person I work with. I provide a warm, nonjudgemental space to show up entirely as you are.
Common themes I support neurocomplex people include building a realistic and compassionate relationship with your nervous system; masking and its energetic tax; establishing personal accommodation practices (meeting yourself where you are at); and working with internalized feelings of shame, guilt, anger, and grief that arise as a result of being neurocomplex.
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Chronic health issues can extend far beyond the physical experience. The reduction in capacity may cascade into areas such as self-esteem, parenting, partnerships, worklife, joyful activities, friendships, and finances. My approach is built on validation and compassion for your experience, and then working gently to shift patterns of self-criticism, avoidance, fear, shame, and anger that may have arisen in response to these health issues and act as additional burden on your system. We work to clear space and find new ways of relating to your body and your experience.
Common chronic health issues I work with include symptom management overwhelm, diagnosis struggles, medical gaslighting, grief over how life used to be, deteriorating social capacity, and catastrophizing the future.
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I am Sansei (third generation Japanese Canadian) and supporting the JC community to heal from internment trauma is a big part of my life and work.
Common themes I support for include processing the present day impact of internment; unpacking parents’ or grandparents' lived experience during the war; and addressing intergenerational themes such as silence, shame, and loss of culture.
I also work with community members who reach out for other issues, and find the shared intergenerational experience offers a level of implicit understanding, ease, and safety.
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Nervous system regulation is foundational to the work I do with people as dysregulation has a global impact on the body and mind and shapes how we approach ourselves and our lives.
Learning to meet ourselves where we are at instead of where we wish we were is the way forward. In this space, we can work together to begin metabolizing historical energy in your body, and practicing simple methods and tools to begin shifting your reactions and responses that can be easily applied outside of session.
Common nervous system regulation issues I support with include chronic anxiety or depression, panic and anxiety attacks, mood swings, disassociation, hyper-rumination, shutting down, hypersensitivity, and feelings of numbness.
An Integrative Healing Approach
I use an integrative blend of modalities that are uniquely tailored to each person I work with.
One of my favourite places on earth, located in Langley, BC.
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Psychotherapy is the overarching term for the service I provide. My approach is integrative, which means I use a blend of modalities. Sessions with me are warm and grounded, and I keep things moving forward through active inquiry and deep listening. I am definitely not a sit-in-silence-for-extended-periods-of-time therapist.
I approach therapy as someone who walks alongside you with a set of specific tools and the capacity to hold a safe and embodied space.
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IFS is the popularized version of ‘parts’ work. Parts here are patterns of behaviour that contain specific beliefs, emotions, and roles that may or may not be in alignment with your present day self. For example, an anxious part may feel very differently about a situation than you actually do. Many parts are responding from a historical experience (i.e. childhood) and will kick us out of the driver’s seat when activated, reducing our access to choice in how we manage or respond to a person, situation, etc. This aim of this work is to begin healing parts so we can steer our lives with intention instead of reaction, we can begin to make enduring changes.
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Hypnosis is a just focused state of attention akin to meditation, but here we call it a light trance-nothing fancy or overwhelming. In this state you will feel relaxed but completely in control of what you say and do.
The style of hypnosis I use is engaging and clients report significant healing, growth, and change when we incorporate it into session. I often combine hypnosis with IFS as it is a gentle way to work with challenging parts. However, hypnotherapy sessions are not mandatory, and we only use it if it is something you are interested in exploring.
Some common hypnotherapy subjects include: inner child work, getting unstuck/finding a new way forward, dream exploration, ancestral work, intergenerational healing, and cord cutting.
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Somatic work turns our attention toward physical perception and experiencing to foster a stronger connection between the body and mind.
But why do this work? Our bodies and minds are often disconnected. If the body is responding from a historical place with a historical backlog, it can be challenging to respond presently to life. Situations we may feel include trying to make changes in our lives, parenting during high conflict, navigating emotional intimacy, working towards goals, making new friends, and stressful situations.
A cornerstone of somatics is the co-regulation experience between client and therapist. If you struggle with regulation, this is a place to practice and experience healthy co-regulation. If you have big feelings, sessions are a place to be met with embodied safety and support, and begin building a new relationship with them.
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All of the above modalities contribute to trauma processing by you showing up and saying yes to your healing; participating regularly in an embodied, safe space; receiving deep validation and compassion for your experiences and feelings; and beginning to unpack harder parts of yourself in a supportive and nonjudgemental environment.
Sometimes there are big sessions where you experience a clear and significant shift. Those are big days! However, often processing happens in the smaller moments, through the simple act of showing up regularly for yourself in an increasingly embodied way.
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My approach is to meet people where they are at, establish trust, goals, and a work at pace that feels appropriate.
For some people, sessions are primarily talk therapy, especially in the beginning. For others, we will immediately engage somatics and hypnotherapy. A foundational tenet of my practice is to work collaboratively: I do not drag clients into directions they are not interested in or ready to go.
If sharing your history feels supportive and validating, then we can begin there but it is not a requirement. Allowing your history to slowly unfold over time is absolutely welcome.
I come to sessions with a lot of presence, questions, humour, and deep listening skills.
Recent Blog Posts
On Getting Started
Taking the brave (and often nerve-wracking) first steps on your healing journey.
On Grief
How to work gently with grief during unrelenting and unprecedented times.
What Is Hypnosis?
What hypnosis is and isn’t, how I use it in my practice, and the impact it has on my clients.